Well, we thought we had day care all figured out. Evan was set to begin on September 6. We visited the day care in June, completed our paperwork in July, and got a confirmation phone call in August. Then on Thursday, 7 business days before we were supposed to begin, we received a phone call from the day care saying they made a huge mistake and double booked Evan's spot. They explained that the other child who was double booked with us has an older brother in day care, which means she has priority over us. Basically, they bumped us out. After many discussions with the director of the day care, we found out the real story. The other family was in the process of adopting a child. The adoption was supposed to be complete in November, which was perfect because the day care had an opening in November. Unexpectedly, though, the adoption was expedited and the child is here now and needs day care in September. Even though we followed all their steps to a "T", we are left out in the cold without child care. I even spoke with the deacon of the church who is apparently head over their private school and day care. He apologized for their mistake and asked for forgiveness, but kept saying we actually did not have any claim to the September spot in the first place. He said for it really to be our spot, we would have had to take a tour, meet the teachers, fill out the paperwork, receive the handbook, and get a confirmation call. There's a lot of hoops to jump through before you can actually claim a spot. The thing is, we had done all of those things. He seemed taken aback when I explained this little technicality, but stuck to his story that we never had any claim to our spot in their day care, and got pretty nasty with me on the phone. Not the behavior I would expect from a deacon of a church. He did "promise" that we would have the next open spot, no matter what, although he refused to put that in writing. He said his word is good and we can trust him, but he doesn't put things in writing because "things change" and he doesn't want to get stuck going along with something because it's in writing. He'll have to forgive me, but I have absolutely no trust in this man's "word" whatsoever.
So, we spent Thursday afternoon on the war path, hunting down a new day care. We have settled on another day care in town that, because of a kid moving away and two kids having birthday's and moving up to the next classroom, will only have four babies in the classroom come Monday. Evan will begin day care this Tuesday, making him the fifth baby. Our state requires a 4:1 ratio, so with five babies, there will be two teachers in the room. Plus, even though this day care is more expensive, they price match other day care's in town. And, they give a $5 discount if you set up auto-payment. That means we're actually going to pay $5 less per week than with the other place. We spent some time visiting our new day care yesterday afternoon and got a chance to meet one of the teacher's and play with the other kids. Evan seemed pretty comfortable and we're happy with our new day care. I guess it all worked out in the end. We'll post pictures on Tuesday of Evan's first day at "school"!!